June’s been a busy month for us! We had our first road trip the weekend before last–we traveled to my parents’ for a long weekend for a cousin’s wedding. The trip is 9 hours one way.
In my post about extended rear-facing, I mentioned our dilemma about turning Meghan around in her car seat. Many of you thought she looked super squished and thought we should go ahead and turn her around, put prefaced your opinions with the idea that I should follow my mommy instincts.
I did follow my mommy instincts, and I couldn’t come up with a good reason to turn her around. She’d never complained; she’s a good car rider. Tim and talked about it and made the choice to keep her rear-facing until there was a more compelling reason to turn her around. Her safety needs to be the biggest factor in our decision making, and clearly rear-facing is the safer choice.
We decided if she gave us problems rear-facing, we would turn her around mid-trip, but she could not have been better behaved. She was an absolute angel. There was no whining, no crying, and only minimal entertainment from Mommy or electronic means needed. She read her books, played with her animals, colored, looked out the windows, and napped. Win. She stayed rear-facing for trip #1.
We got home on a Monday evening and were slated to leave again Thursday, this time for a trip to visit Tim’s family and attend his grandmother’s 90th birthday party. This trip is a total of 12 hours, but we break it into two days.
Right at the beginning I knew this trip wouldn’t be like the first. We’d been traveling maybe 10 minutes when I heard Meghan chirp,
“Okay, time to see Nana and Poppy!”
I knew another long trip so close to the first was going to be difficult.
Overall, she wasn’t terrible, just not as easy as the first trip. When nap time rolled around, however, it seemed she’d just about reached her limit.
She was whining, “Time to get out. Time to get out!”
And whining. And whining. And whining. Definitely not sleeping.
Finally, we decided to turn her around. I didn’t know if it would help or not, but thought I would give it a try. Her first words were when she was forward-facing were,
“This is fun. Driving is fun.” Not kidding.
She happily looked around for a while, and then fell into sweet sleep without the accompanying whining. Yay.
While she did get restless during moments at the rest of the trip, having her forward-facing was definitely easier for everyone. When she was rear-facing, I had to jump in the back seat anytime she needed something (like an animal she dropped or a drink of water) and of course that isn’t safe for me. With her forward-facing, it’s so nice to turn around and see her face and have access to her without having to jump in the back.
I still have mixed feelings about making the decision based on her behavior, but now that we’ve turned her around I think it would be difficult for her to go back to rear-facing.
Although the first thing she does when she gets in her seat now is put her feet up on the seat, so I think she liked having something to prop her dogs up on.
Today we took a ride over to Poppy’s golf club for lunch. Meghan feels like such a big girl sitting forward.
It’s a beautiful day and we had a relaxing lunch on the patio.
Afterwards Meghan was lucky enough to get a golf lesson from Poppy.
Does she look like a serious golfer or what?
The rest of the week will include more fun times with Nana and Poppy.
I might even get a chance to sneak into the kitchen for some recipe experimentation. Stay tuned.
lindsay says
so well behaved! i get antsy on road trips, haha. we have a 6 hour trip coming up. Good fun!
Tiff says
What lovely pictures! I think I can see the US Open in her future. haha
Jenn L @ Peas and Crayons says
ooh I hope you do/did get a chance to sneak away and experiment! =) haha love it! And she def is used to backwards facing by the looks of her “propping up her dogs” bahahaha! =) I literally snorted when I read that!
Ari@ThE DivA DiSh says
My daughter is only ten months and I want to turn her around just so it’s easier for me to give her things and see her face 🙂 But I know I have to wait!
I am also super nervous to take a big trip with her..she already can’t stand being in the car for a long period of time, so you are lucky your daughter did such a great job!!
Glad your having such a fun week/weekend with family!
Alya says
what a happy summer! 🙂
brandi says
she looks so happy!! too adorable 🙂
and a mother’s instinct is pretty much always dead on!
Julie H. of Spinach and Sprinkles says
Nothing like a mother’s instinct. I do agree, it would be pretty tough to turn her around again. Hope you enjoyed time with your family! There is NOTHING better than time with family! …..Also, congrats on the newest addition! 🙂
Lindsay@LivingLindsay says
She is just too precious. 🙂
And I should have warned you…they are often angels for the first trip. Carter was SO perfect on his first 9 hour car ride to my parents’ house that I just couldn’t believe it. We were there for 10 days. When we got into the car to drive back home, he was whining after 45 minutes. It’s like he KNEW what he was in for, whereas the first time, he was clueless. 🙂 But I’m glad she was more content forward facing. She certainly looks comfy!
Heidi @ Food Doodles says
Aw, I’m so glad she’s enjoying being forward facing! It’s so hard to decide to make the switch all of the sudden(it really is impossible to say “now is the right time” at any point) but I agree, it is a lot more convenient, and safer for you not having to jump back there. I even have to reach back there quite frequently for my youngest and it’s especially hard on longer trips. And now Meghan has so many different things to look at 😀 Looks and sounds like you’ve been having great time with all your traveling!